The conciliation service Acas reported at the beginning of this year that 1 in 10 employees experience workplace bullying and harassment. The knock on effect is that employment solicitors have reported that bullying features highly in the cases of unfair dismissal and discrimination they handle. As an employer, you have a zero tolerance approach to bullying and harassment. It says so right there in your employee handbook. You know that workplace bullying can be a problem. But what happens when you ARE the problem?
You may not even be aware of it. You may think that’s just your sense of humour and tough luck if your employees don’t get the joke. You’re entitled to your opinions and well, let’s face it, you’re the employer after all. You pay their wages and if they don’t like it, they know where the door is. And why wouldn’t you be angry, shout at people and slam doors?! You’re so stressed and they just don’t understand what it’s like having all the pressure of running the business. If any of these sound like you, stop and think about how your employees are feeling. There’s a strong chance that at least one person will feel bullied by your behaviour. Most of them will feel a little uncomfortable but they won’t say anything because they’ve gotten used to it. Does upsetting that one person make you a bully? Yes, it does.
If you're seen as a bully, what does that mean for your carefully-worded zero tolerance policy? If you're seen as a bully, what does that say to other managers in your business? If you're seen as a bully, bullying will thrive in your business and your policy won't be worth the paper it's printed on.